The Dirty Duo
Issue date: 2/3/10 Section: Campus Talk
For him ...
by her
After last week's column about what men do wrong, it's time to give some credit to men about things they do well. I mean, they must be doing something right in order to keep women coming back for more, right? So, here it is, my list of things you should keep doing.
The Sensual Kisser
While a normal kiss on the lips will do, try moving south just a tad. And by south I don't mean down there, I mean my neck (come on, get your mind out of the gutter). This is a sensitive part of the body and, most of the time, gives a girl goose bumps from head to toe. Don't be afraid to linger in this area for a while, because as I mentioned last week, it's nice to be teased a little before the main event. While you're in the neck area, take a minute to pay attention to my ears, I promise I won't mind.
The Cuddler
While not all girls like to cuddle after a steamy workout, some do. It's understandable for someone to need space to cool off, but if you stick around and even cuddle (just for a little while) it shows us sex isn't the only thing you're after. Add the occasional random kiss on the forehead while cuddling and you're definitely a keeper.
The Giver
You know women work hard to make sure you get yours, so sometimes it's nice to know you care about our satisfaction as well. Everyone knows sex is best when you're relaxed and comfortable with your partner, and occasionally there's nothing nicer than hearing "Tonight it's all about you." Chances are good that if some nights are all about her, then some nights will only be about you.
If you have been doing these things with your lover, keep it up. It's likely your partner is enjoying themselves. And don't forget, there's no shame in voicing your wants and needs while in the sack, it may even be a turn on for some, and by doing this everyone is satisfied in the end.
- Miss Dirty Deed
For her ...
by him
Sex is a fun game that lovers play. The biggest and best thing you can do for your sex life and for your partner's is to ask what they like. So let's dive deeper, girls - you do so many amazing things in bed, but one of the best things you can do is to tell us what you want.
What I mean is when we are, you know, tell us what you want. If something feels good, tell us. If not, tell us. We want to make you happy and it can be a turn-on to be told what to do. Telling us what you want will make it better for both of us and it could lead to an extremely satisfying experience. When you take control and tell us what you want, it will be better for both of us. Let's face it, we men are guaranteed an orgasm when you are not.
Girls should be open to trying new things. This means trying different positions or other fun things, not just different types of sex. Sex is regarded as a very intimate and passionate act, but it should also be fun.
Maybe try role play, wear a little outfit and live out a fantasy, or try a position that is new and exciting. You may find a new favorite that you and your partner can do every time. Sex can be exciting and fun if you let it, so have fun exploring your partner's body.
Ladies, it is amazing when you bring in things like whipped cream or chocolate sauce to add a twist that also satisfies our sweet tooth.
Finally, one of the best things a girl can do for a guy is foreplay. We like it just as much as you. The more excited we get, and the longer you make us wait to be with you, the more satisfying it is when we finally come together. Tease us and make us wait, be sexy and make us beg. The more you do this the more we can't wait to see and experience what you have been making us wait for.
Girls, you already do so much that makes sex unreal, so stick to what you're good at. If you know what your partner likes or what he wants, do it. Or ask him - I'm sure he would be more than happy to tell you. If your sex life is getting a little bland, try something new and exciting. Tease us, make us wait, because we all know men and women alike all want what they can't have.
- The Trojan Horse
by her
After last week's column about what men do wrong, it's time to give some credit to men about things they do well. I mean, they must be doing something right in order to keep women coming back for more, right? So, here it is, my list of things you should keep doing.
The Sensual Kisser
While a normal kiss on the lips will do, try moving south just a tad. And by south I don't mean down there, I mean my neck (come on, get your mind out of the gutter). This is a sensitive part of the body and, most of the time, gives a girl goose bumps from head to toe. Don't be afraid to linger in this area for a while, because as I mentioned last week, it's nice to be teased a little before the main event. While you're in the neck area, take a minute to pay attention to my ears, I promise I won't mind.
The Cuddler
While not all girls like to cuddle after a steamy workout, some do. It's understandable for someone to need space to cool off, but if you stick around and even cuddle (just for a little while) it shows us sex isn't the only thing you're after. Add the occasional random kiss on the forehead while cuddling and you're definitely a keeper.
The Giver
You know women work hard to make sure you get yours, so sometimes it's nice to know you care about our satisfaction as well. Everyone knows sex is best when you're relaxed and comfortable with your partner, and occasionally there's nothing nicer than hearing "Tonight it's all about you." Chances are good that if some nights are all about her, then some nights will only be about you.
If you have been doing these things with your lover, keep it up. It's likely your partner is enjoying themselves. And don't forget, there's no shame in voicing your wants and needs while in the sack, it may even be a turn on for some, and by doing this everyone is satisfied in the end.
- Miss Dirty Deed
For her ...
by him
Sex is a fun game that lovers play. The biggest and best thing you can do for your sex life and for your partner's is to ask what they like. So let's dive deeper, girls - you do so many amazing things in bed, but one of the best things you can do is to tell us what you want.
What I mean is when we are, you know, tell us what you want. If something feels good, tell us. If not, tell us. We want to make you happy and it can be a turn-on to be told what to do. Telling us what you want will make it better for both of us and it could lead to an extremely satisfying experience. When you take control and tell us what you want, it will be better for both of us. Let's face it, we men are guaranteed an orgasm when you are not.
Girls should be open to trying new things. This means trying different positions or other fun things, not just different types of sex. Sex is regarded as a very intimate and passionate act, but it should also be fun.
Maybe try role play, wear a little outfit and live out a fantasy, or try a position that is new and exciting. You may find a new favorite that you and your partner can do every time. Sex can be exciting and fun if you let it, so have fun exploring your partner's body.
Ladies, it is amazing when you bring in things like whipped cream or chocolate sauce to add a twist that also satisfies our sweet tooth.
Finally, one of the best things a girl can do for a guy is foreplay. We like it just as much as you. The more excited we get, and the longer you make us wait to be with you, the more satisfying it is when we finally come together. Tease us and make us wait, be sexy and make us beg. The more you do this the more we can't wait to see and experience what you have been making us wait for.
Girls, you already do so much that makes sex unreal, so stick to what you're good at. If you know what your partner likes or what he wants, do it. Or ask him - I'm sure he would be more than happy to tell you. If your sex life is getting a little bland, try something new and exciting. Tease us, make us wait, because we all know men and women alike all want what they can't have.
- The Trojan Horse
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James
posted 2/06/10 @ 10:25 PM EST
This is just a weekly list of random sex terms. You could at least try to come to some sort of point sooner or later.
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